Family Mediation - mediator near me
Initial Assessment Meeting
You might have been told to attend a MIAM or that you need a C100/Form A court certificate. However, the MIAM is an opportunity to explore the option of MEDIATION. During the MIAM, you’ll meet with the mediator one-on-one (though you’re welcome to bring someone for support if you'd like).
The mediator will explain how the process works, and you'll have the chance to talk about your situation, what the next steps are, and what’s expected from you. The meeting also helps everyone decide if mediation is the right option.
If both parties attend a MIAM and agree that mediation is suitable, a joint session will be arranged.
Subsequent Meetings
This would have been discussed in your MIAM. These are joint sessions where you and your ex-partner or family member will meet with the mediator.
The number of sessions that are required is dependant on many things. However, it is estimated for Child Only cases it may require 1-3 meetings and for Property and Finance or All Issues ( both children and finance) 2-4 meetings.
The mediator is not able to give financial or legal advice you can seek professional advice at anytime. Remember mediation is voluntary it can be stopped at anytime
The Outcome
When people are in conflict, it can be difficult to see how a positive outcome is possible. However, by committing to the mediation process, it's often possible to find a resolution.
For couples going through separation or divorce, it’s common to want documentation that outlines the agreements reached during mediation. As mediation comes to a close, some important documents can be prepared.
If financial matters are settled, a Summary of Financial Information will be created. This is an "open" document that provides a factual overview of the financial situation and can be used in court if necessary. The mediator can also draft a Memorandum of Understanding (MOU), summarizing all the proposals agreed upon during mediation. For divorcing couples, it is important to get a your agreement legally recognised by obtaining a Financial Consent Order. For child-related issues, a parenting agreement can be drafted to outline arrangements.
While these documents are not legally binding, they can be used to obtain a legal order through the court. They also serve as helpful tools for ongoing communication and decision-making. If an agreement cannot be reached and mediation ends, the necessary court forms (C100/Form A) can be signed to support a court application.